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From Forbes
http://blogs.forbes.com/meghancasserly/2011/01/27/university-of-ohio-parenting-father-involvement-coparenting/

Meghan Casserly
Dad’s Off The Hook? Study Says Fathers Should Be A Little Less Involved In Parenting


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My comment

Excellent information

Women need to learn how to respect husbands ways of doing things. Because of women having done some thing for long time, it does not mean that there is no other way, or even a better way. How about training moms be less selfish and allow the fathers room to help in the other person’s way.

For, according to my experience, and according to the study too, wives don’t want their husband to share in the rearing of the children. Rather, moms normally want to train husbands to be helpers, as if the man cant’ think for himself—a robot.

Thus, wife/mom tries to micromanage the husband’s activities. Woman need to learn how to share. If the husband salts the food, don’t complain. Just remember how many times you the wife salted the food or forgot the salt.

Women need to allow room for husband’s mistakes as well improvements. Just like when the wives make mistakes or improvements. It is trial and error from both sides. When two parents do things, normally thing are done in two different ways, but achieving he same objective. The problem appears to be competition.

Did the study recommend training women to respect the husband’s viewpoint? Or help the husband to adjust to the wife’s way of doing things? Or, at times learn from the husband?

How about training the feminists such concepts—men and women feminists alike?