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From Forbes
http://blogs.forbes.com/meghancasserly/2011/01/27/university-of-ohio-parenting-father-involvement-coparenting/

Meghan Casserly
Dad’s Off The Hook? Study Says Fathers Should Be A Little Less Involved In Parenting


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Excellent information

Women need to learn how to respect husbands ways of doing things. Because of women having done some thing for long time, it does not mean that there is no other way, or even a better way. How about training moms be less selfish and allow the fathers room to help in the other person’s way.

For, according to my experience, and according to the study too, wives don’t want their husband to share in the rearing of the children. Rather, moms normally want to train husbands to be helpers, as if the man cant’ think for himself—a robot.

Thus, wife/mom tries to micromanage the husband’s activities. Woman need to learn how to share. If the husband salts the food, don’t complain. Just remember how many times you the wife salted the food or forgot the salt.

Women need to allow room for husband’s mistakes as well improvements. Just like when the wives make mistakes or improvements. It is trial and error from both sides. When two parents do things, normally thing are done in two different ways, but achieving he same objective. The problem appears to be competition.

Did the study recommend training women to respect the husband’s viewpoint? Or help the husband to adjust to the wife’s way of doing things? Or, at times learn from the husband?

How about training the feminists such concepts—men and women feminists alike?

Is Sarah Palin following Hillary Rodham Clinton?

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Examiner
http://www.examiner.com/love-and-marriage-in-national/sarah-palin-silent-no-more-speaks-out-about-todd-s-affair-rumors
Sarah Palin, silent no more, speaks out about Todd's affair rumors

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Lets look at the parallels between the two Power driven wives. Both women look for the big payoff, Hilly wanted to be president of the greatest nation on earth; Sarah Palin is trying for the same.

Hillary played it smart when Monica showed her underwear Bill. Could be that Sarah is also playing it smart when the Enquire published a story about Todd Palin’s involvement with a prostitution?

Hillary was the feminist’s idol, but when Bill said “I did not have sex with that woman.” Hillary knew the semantics of those words, but sacrificed her feminist idolship by staying with her man, for better reasons of course.

Hillary switched from her feminist rhetoric to become a nice suffering and supportive wife. It was Mrs. Clinton’s excellent plan in the ambition focus. Is it possible that Sarah Palin decided to make a sacrifice, for better reasons too.

Appears that Mrs. Sarah Palin is copycatting Hillary. According to Rita Watson, Mrs. Palin remained silent for five days when her own husband was accused of involvement with a prostitute ring. On the contrary, seems like it took Sarah five minutes to call for Assange’s death, in the WikiLeaks’ disclosing of US’s secret information. It is a big change in response time. Something does not seem right.

On the other hand, birthers and Sara’s movement seem not to believe the Hawaiian authorities about Obama’s birth records authenticity. Such, attitude implies that record fraud exists in Hawaii. Could that same attitude be valid for Alaska’s police records? Five days is a long time to be silent about something so important to Sarah Palin, her family and her followers.

Is Egypt becoming second Iran?

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The Shah was a “dictator”, and the world allowed extremist Muslim religionists to take over. Now, the everyday news about Iran lets us know how it works. It ranges from attire police to enforce women dressing styles inside Iran-covering that skin, to puppet religious extremists in Lebanon and Gaza. Again the news shows us a scary picture, especially about gender inequalities.

Saddam Hussein was a dictator, so the Western powers killed him. Much blood was spilled from that war, and nobody knows when the blood will stop running in the streets. Christians became targets with the new government. Women have less privileges now, than they had when Saddam Hussein was dictating. Iran, now has influence in Iraq too.

Iraqis who escaped to the West tell us that even though Saddam had his secret police on the streets, everybody knew who they were, by clues. The average Iraqi knew where it was safe and where it was dangerous. Now, no one in Iraq knows who is who. Fear is to the point that people take false identities to hide their religion sect of Islam, or to hide other ethnical identifiers. Woman fear the extremists, and have less opportunity now than they had under Saddam’s regime.

Lebanon has become a Hezbollah state. Now, will Egypt have a democracy next? Or will the democratic movement in Egypt allow themselves to be taken over by religionist and become another Islam state? Turkey appears to be leaning towards Iran. Will Iran return to the old Great Persian Empire of 500 BC?

The old Persian empire included today’s Libya, Egypt, Greece, and Turkey, across a 2,500 mile stretch to include Pakistan, Afghanistan and part of India with Iraq, Lebanon, and Kuwait. Now with its home-made missiles and nukes almost on the go, that old Persian dream may not seem so farfetched. Than, the Islamic law and the Islamic nation could become a global power or the globe itself. After all, the Muslim family has multiple births, while the western family produces around 1.7 children and decreasing.

Ironically, women negativism appears missing.

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From Huffington post
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/robert-leahy-phd/why-men-dont-listen-to-wo_b_808187.html

“Why men don’t listen”
Robert Leahy, Ph.D.
Director of the American Institute for Cognitive Therapy
Posted: January 27, 2011 08:26 AM
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Ironically, women negativism appears missing. Could this be by neglect, coincidence, intention, or bias?

When women start to see men as equals, they will not treat husbands as slaves. If men be robots and do as they are told or implied to by honey, the marriage is sweet. When men try to have the same input in the marriage, then “man can’t listen.”

Women know that the law is in their side and they will take advantage of it, like my “EX” told me. If you would like facts check my blog. Prove me wrong. Make research into who starts the violence. By the way, as long as the man has income it not too bad; but when unemployment arrives, women demonstrate how much they love their husbands. Not all woman of course. The opposite is also true, Doc.

Hey Doc, how about statistics on who starts fights hat home, and who is sneaky, and who uses emotion control, and who lies in court. Who turns the children against the father? Take a course in feminism, check what is being taught there. Than your article will be different and creditable.

A Tumbleweed

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Turning and turning
The tumbleweed goes
Always rolling

Without feet nor toes
The way is any way
It no longer grows

Restless, can’t lay
With each wind gust
It dos not stay

Useless as rust
And without seed
Without vice or lust

It is a tumbleweed
Without a creed
no blood, can’t bleed.

By DFF Leonardo

Is Sarah Palin a bad example?

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It appears that Sarah Palin is a paradox. Sarah speaks about all the good things about the family and other good things, like every politician does. But appears that Palin puts emphasis on family values. That is great to keep families together.

However, families, especially conservative families like Sarah proposes, function by two parents. Right on, she is on target. This is amazing from a mother of five with a special needs child to care for. Supporting the family and being there, goes hand and hand.

As experts and experienced people say, the best teaching method is example; and this is the area where Sarah Palin may be falling short. The family means doing things together—a mother and a father. How can Palin the mom, spend time with her family, when a great portion of her time is on the road giving speeches, or preparing talks, and surfing the news?

Sarah Palin is not being the exemplary mom that she appear to be. Seems that her husband can cover for her; or does Sarah Palin hire people to help out with parental tasks? Even if the last is true, mom is not there. Sarah Palin does not fulfill the role of a loving mom, to fulfill the very role that she advocates.

Than, if Sarah Palin is not living by what she preaches, how can we rely on Sarah Palin as politician? Could it be that Palin, is visioning a two layer system where one set of rules apply to rich and affluent, while another set of rules apply to the proletariat? That is the way things are now, we do not need people doing what is being done; it has not worked and will not work. We need politicians with an honest focus, and with a new perspective. We need our equals to be politicians.

Second exodus from Egypt?

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From Reuters
http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/01/30/egypt-tourism-idUSLDE70T0BB20110130

UPDATE 1-Governments ready to fly citizens out of Egypt
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The first exodus was 3,300 years ago by the Israelites, now it’s the rest of the world running for their lives.

What do the governments know that the public does not see? Chaos is already in Egyption streets—the police is “retreating.”